This is less of an observation and more of a sharing something a good friend shared with me….she told me how a couple friend of hers were getting ready for retirement and when the husband was asked about how he felt about retiring he said…."I'm looking forward to walking into retirement holding my wife's hand."  Now that sounds like the kind of LOVE I would want….someone who after many years is still looking forward to spending time together.  I'll keep watching and listening!